She lost him. Then she found a way through.

Lt. James Crawford (Ret.) of the Chicago Police Department was a pastor, a mentor, and the man everyone leaned on. Months after retiring, he died by suicide. His wife, Erie S. Crawford, LSW, PhD — a licensed social worker who saw the signs — made a decision in her darkest hour: this loss would not take her too.

She buried him on a Saturday. By Monday, she was in therapy, fighting for her own healing. What she built from that fight is now helping suicide-loss families across the country find their way back to life.

In this episode, Dr. Crawford joins hosts Lt. David Dachinger (ret.) and guest co-host Lynette Shaw-Butler for a conversation about loss, love, and the long road back.

In this episode:

▪ Why the "strong ones" carry pain silently — and how families can gently open that door
▪ The warning signs she saw, and what she wants other spouses to know
▪ The retirement transition: why a plan for what's next matters as much as the pension
▪ What suicide-loss families need after the funeral, when the initial support fades
▪ The S.U.N.R.I.S.E. Healing Journey: Surrender, Understand, Nurture, Reconcile, Integrate, Strengthen, Engage
▪ Her guiding truth: when night ends, the sun rises

📖 Dr. Crawford's memoir, The Other Side of Midnight: A Journey to Healing Spouses and Loved Ones Affected by Suicide, is available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books.

🌅 Learn about the S.U.N.R.I.S.E. Healing Journey or book Dr. Crawford to speak: https://eriescrawfordphd.org

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